• On iPhone, press the icon in the shape of an pointed arrow upwards to the top right to return to your profile.

Select the flame icon. It is at the top right of the screen. This allows you to return to the main page of Tinder where you can start consulting the profiles.

Consult the profiles

Love a profile by dragging it to the right. You can also press the heart -shaped icon. This indicates that you like it and that you would like to form a “pair” with this user.

Slide it on the left if you don’t like it. You can also type on the X button. This prevents the profile from reappearing in the list of available profiles.

Wait for someone to love your profile. If you like someone and if this person loves you, it’s a “pair”, you will receive a notification and you can then send messages.

Select the messages icon. It is at the top right of the screen.

Type his name. You will find it on this page, but you can also use the search bar to find a particular user.

• Avoid writing only “hi”, write rather “hi, how are you ? »»
• Try to stand out.

Be courteous. It is easy to forget that you are talking to another human being through Tinder, which is why you have to remember to remain positive, kind and respectful during your interactions.

• Avoid using Tinder on vacation, because it could fill up with users who loved you when you are no longer on your vacation place.

• Inappropriate behavior and harassment will cause the account closing.

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Tutorial: How does Tinder work ? + 5 rules to start well !

At the start, the Tinder meeting application was known for its simplicity .

✅on puts 3 photos online, we swipe from left to right, and hop we have 15 games without doing anything !

Except that you must have realized that the reality is very different.

⛔️ Today, if you don’t know how Tinder works, you are dead !

Some very simple questions:

• ⚠️Save yourself summarizing in 1 sentence the operation of the Tinder algorithm ?
• ⚠️Commian of women a day I must like ?
• ⚠️ I also like to like the ugly to be more visible ?
• ⚠️Chement increase your desirability note ?
• ⚠️A what frequency should the application be used to be visible ?

If you don’t know how to answer these questions, then you cannot get significant results on Tinder.

It is therefore vital to learn together how to work the functioning of Tinder !

✅Comment using Tinder ? How to use the app to your advantage ? Here is the user manual !

It will be our subject of the day !

At the end of the article, for the most queutards of you who will wish to exploit the application to seduce women, I will send you back to a mini-training of 30 minutes to help you build a profile that is a hit by exploiting all the Tinder algorithm flaws (I use it to train my students and unlock them).

How Tinder works ? It will not have any secrets for you !

How to attract (and keep) a woman you like in 2023

Thanks to the online dating method of an ancient introverted engineer:

Take a very frothy beer, we start !

▶ ️ For those who hate reading (shame on you), here is the video version of this article:

Understand Tinder’s vocabulary !

Here is a quick lexicon so that you can understand the meaning of the terms and how to use well used by the application:

• ▶ ️ Swipe : scrolling with the finger on the screen (left or right)
• ▶ ️ Like : when you mean your desire to talk to someone (“Swip” to the right)
• ▶ ️ Dislike : this is the opposite (“Swip” to the left)
• ▶ ️ Match : when 2 people have sent a like

Good to know: the term “Match” was popularized by Tinder. Knowing that, you can now fart it in the evening ��

Tinder is for whom ?

This application is mainly used by generation Y & Z (age group 15-30 years) . In the furrow of other dredging apps like Badoo, adopts a guy or happy, she is massively known to young people. Nevertheless, the not so young also start to get started.

Indeed, I receive more and more among my clients to redesign in Tinder profile of the thirties, or even quarantineles. The application is democratized slowly, but surely.

About anyone can take advantage of Tinder, provided you have a smartphone to use it !

You can connect there all over France, traveling, and even abroad.

We told you: this application is used everywhere.

How to register on Tinder ?

It’s archi-simple, so we’re going to be short:

• ✅You download the application from your phone (Applestore for iPhone, and Googlestore for Android)
• ✅You create your account (either with your phone number or with your Facebook account)
• ✅You provide information on your profile (photos, description, age, sex …))
• ✅ That’s all !

The creators of the application wanted something simple and effective. It’s done, and it works so well that almost everyone has already tested at least 1x the application.

How to use Tinder ?

Now that your profile is created, all you have to do is learn how to use the application !

Here is the view of the main interface of your profile (with a nice little dog for the needs of the article, you just have to replace this photo with yours):

Your main photo is displayed. As well as your first name, your age, and various information (business, studies, and location).

Then below is the description that you have informed.

It is this screen that girls will use who use Tinder !

Here is the view of the main interface where you can scroll through the girls’ profiles:

From this interface, just slide the girls with whom you want to talk. And slide the profile you like to the left.

On those with whom you will have a match, you can chat with them from the conversation interface:

It’s up to you to start discussion….And to manage to go from virtual to reality !

How Tinder for women works ?

Tinder works exactly the same way for women as for men.

Although Tinder Gold (paid version of Tinder) allows you to have more visibility, women do not need it strictly.

Because women are Tinder’s stars, and they know it very well !

They clearly don’t need to pay to get games with men.

However, man or woman, Tinder’s features remain identical.

Tinder Free or Paying ?

You can use Tinder in free or paid mode, its operation remains the same.

Nevertheless, some advantages with the paid version:

• ✅You are favored by algorithm to appear more often in girls (at the same time you pay so it’s normal),
• ✅You have access to additional settings (move your geolocation for example),
• ✅You can like more profiles every day (more than with the free version anyway),
• ✅And several other good us (these bonuses are scalable in time so can change every week).

It’s up to you to weigh the pros and cons according to your budget and your free time. To see all the detail, I send you back to the official Tinder page !

The paid version allows you to go faster, but the free version already allows you to obtain significant results.

For example, during my years of celibacy, I never needed to take the paid version to succeed.

It took me a little more time for sure, because I had fewer games, but the results pay as long as your profile is optimized !

How to use free tinder ?

As I explain in the previous point, the free version of Tinder is more than enough.

Unless you really have trouble having matches and you feel the need to try the paid version by taking a Tinder subscription.

But, if you listen to my advice, you should already be quite a bit out ��

The free version of Tinder works very simply:

– ✅ Creation of a profile,

– ✅ Feed it: organic, photos, information about you,

– ✅ Be active on the application to boost your visibility.

This therefore answers your question:

“Do you have to pay on Tinder ?»

The answer is no.

Tinder: a secure meeting app

The question of privacy is very fashionable at the moment !

If by chance you are afraid of getting “grab” by someone, know that there is an option to become invisible in the eyes of others.

In addition, at any time, you can unsubscribe from the application and completely delete your profile.

So whatever your situation, you can delete your data if necessary, and become invisible to the eyes of others. Like that, no risk of making you burden !

Bonus: 5 rules to know to use Tinder well

Now that we have introduced the basics of operation, we will detail some essential rules to know to use the application as best as possible.

Rule n ° 1: your main photo must everything TO FART

You have probably read it elsewhere, but I allow myself to insist on this point.

⛔️Pri Postulants with seduction coaching in Paris, I see all the time that people put a very banal photo in main photo.

Let’s parallel with your CV when you look for work.

Your description, your Tinder profile, this is the content of your CV.

Your main photo on Tinder is the photo in the top left corner of the CV (when I was looking for work I put it there).

And this photo is the First thing you look at !

Imagine yourself as a male recruiter looking for a female profile. You have 150 CVs to strip. All these women look cooler and competent than each other.

However, we will have to make a choice.

If you have already managed a team, let’s be honest: you look at the photo first. And even if it is not politically correct to say it, opinion is already influenced by this one photo.

Although on the CV, the photo influences judgment, the difference with Tinder is that it is decisive.

Tinder walks in the same way as the photo of your CV: it is impactful or eliminatory.

No room for the middle.

Either you send pâté or you forget you.

Your Tinder profile = your CV

And your photo is the first thing we look at.

So please: never ignore your photo !

Create a Facebook survey if you don’t know which one to put, or ask your friends. At first, it will be better than doing nothing and recovering from chance.

Rule n ° 2: However, the photo does not do everything

Ask your friends what they think of the power of photos on Tinder.

Many of you will answer that the photos do everything, and that Tinder only works with the photos.

It is both true and false.

This is true because if you have banal/bancals, you will not interest any girl. So no need to go further if you are already stuck in the photos (for that I recommend a profile overhaul + Tinder photo shoot).

And it is wrong because it is not because you have excellent photos that the games are made.

It would be far too simplistic to say that with good photos, that there is nothing to do.

Because it is not your photos that will put women in your bed to kiss.

And these women, we will have to make them move on the appointment !

Excellent photos are the basis of the base. But if you are only resting on that, you will not go further. That’s not how Tinder walks.

As Gandalf Le Gris says: you won’t go !

To get around this, you must be interested in other aspects of Tinder:

• ✅Mitize the algorithm to appear first in girls,
• ✅ have a description that sets you apart from others,
• ✅ The damage of the first message,
• ✅The bring quickly to the appointment.

These other subjects will be dealt with via other articles.

Let’s continue on the other rules to know to find out how Tinder works !

Rule n ° 3: you are in (strong) COMPETITION

Do not offend yourself: this is the case everywhere.

Whether you are in nightclubs, evenings with friends, or in the evening of BDE integration: men are always more numerous than women.

And Tinder is no exception to the rule.

⚠️ It is both a wonderful and a Appalling new.

It’s appalling because all the men who dare not approach a girl will find the courage to do it on Tinder.

So we have many more men than women.

But it is also a wonderful news.

✅car the good news is that 80% of them will never seek to become better men.

If you read this article, it is that you have already accepted a small questioning. Even tiny, even small, it is a questioning.

This is a 1st not to be part of the 20% of men who succeed.

Because who says competition, says “everyone will not be able to grab”.

Some will succeed, others will be left on the tile.

It’s up to you to choose your camp.

This is how Tinder works.

Rule n ° 4: your profile must be perfect

Corollary of the previous rule: your profile must curl up absolute perfection !

Your profile must be your work of art. Your baby.

It must represent you as much as possible your value.

I have good news: 80% of guys are far away !

The proof in image, with 4 profiles fired completely by chance:

You find that they are well built ? Not me !

So for you, this is very good news.

It means that it will not be ultra-diamitic to stand out.

But again: your profile must be built, optimal, reflect, and rewarding.

Each detail counts. It’s like in a nightclub, and especially the fairly select places.

If you want to know how Tinder works, know that the competition is strong, then do not neglect anything.

Understanding this is a huge step in understanding Tinder functioning.

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